Estranged Parents
Go from heartbreak to healing so that you can find joy again.
Do you have an adult child who’s gone no contact?
Are you overwhelmed by grief, anger, sadness, or shame?
Are you tired of struggling through this alone?
Our Story
In 2020, out of the blue, we received an angry letter from our daughter telling us that we could not be in her life if we chose the presidential candidate she hated. Then she blocked us on social media, told us not to text (except for family emergencies) and went silent.
We were shocked, devastated, confused, hurt, angry, and completely unprepared for the heartbreaking journey that followed as we stumbled through the pain, trying to make sense of what felt like the ultimate, completely unexpected betrayal, documented here.
But with persistent effort, we found our way past the heartbreak and into the realm of healing, creating this community to help other parents struggling with estrangement—a safe place for caring parents to come together, share stories, and help each other heal.
Who is This Community For?
If you're a loving, non-abusive parent of an adult child who’s cut you off, this is your place if...
- You did the best you could to raise your child in good faith despite challenges.
- You can’t stop rehashing what might have gone wrong.
- You’ve tried to reconcile, but nothing ever changes.
- You’re tired of all negative emotions like shock, shame, anger, and regret.
- You wish you could move on and find joy in your life again.
- You're ready to heal from this pain.
Our community is designed to help you navigate whatever stage of estrangement you are in. We're here to help you heal and grow so that you can become the best version of yourself despite the devastation, and as a community, prepare for the next chapter of life with good resources, guidance, and the support you need to rise up with clarity and strength.
Please note that religion, politics, and cultural differences are common reasons for children to estrange, so these topics are discussed. We have Christians, Jews, Buddhists, Hindus, and Agnostics in our mix, but Christians are the majority. Politically, we are moderate but lean Conservative, however, Libertarians and Classical Liberals who think independently would be comfortable. Cultural ideologies that conflict with family values are frequently discussed.
Who is This Community NOT For?
While we welcome parents from all walks of life, this community isn't for everyone. If you are close-minded, have difficulty entertaining new ideas, or if you are dogmatic in your beliefs and try to convert everyone to your way of thinking, this is not the place for you.
Our parents value free speech, yet still approach conversations with empathy, kindness, and compassion. We are intellectually curious, yet politely agree to disagree when opinions differ.
Go From Heartbreak to Healing in 2025
Join our supportive community of estranged parents working together to heal our broken hearts so that we can reclaim the peace and joy in our lives again. This year, you can expect...
- Featured monthly themes with practical tools to focus your intention, expand understanding, and keep you moving forward on the path to healing.
Insights that provide clarity, foster self-compassion, spark conversation, and guide you through this difficult journey in a safe, no-judgment environment.
- Regular online meetups where you can get questions answered, share stories, learn from others, and make personal connections, reinforcing that you're not alone.
- Meaningful relationships with other estranged parents via ongoing interactions in a 24/7 private network, supporting you as you process the pain of estrangement.
The opportunity to contribute in dedicated spaces, where like-minded parents can gather around shared beliefs on religion, politics, and culture, as well as specific issues like addiction, manipulation, reconciliation, and more.
What Our Members Say
We welcome estranged parents who are tired of suffering and want to heal from this pain. Make 2025 the year you reclaim your peace, joy, and power in life. After all you've done for your kids throughout their lives, it's time to focus on you. You deserve it.
Sliding Scale Membership Plans
Join according to your ability to pay. The Classic Plan will work for most. If you have less, pay less. If you have more, consider paying more. Your generosity makes this community happen for all. Each plan has the option for monthly or annual rates—click plan to see details:
